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Newsletter archives

Vol. 1 - December 21, 2006 - I'm low on my husbands priority..what do I do?

Vol. 2 - December 28, 2006 - Where do I begin if I want to get closer to my wife and kids?

Vol. 3 - January 04, 2007 - Why is my husband mad?

Vol. 4 - January 11, 2007 - How do avoiders and Pleasers handle anger?

Vol. 5 - January 18, 2007 - How to vacillators handle anger?

Vol. 6 - January 25, 2007 - How do controllers and victims handle anger?

Vol. 7 - February 01, 2007- Top Five Relationship Problems

Vol. 8 - February 08, 2007- The Avoidant Husband and Pursuing Wife

Vol. 9 - February 15, 2007 - Affairs, Dissatisfaction and Fantasies

Vol. 10 - February 22, 2007 - Anxiety / Depression and Addictions.

Vol. 11 - March 01, 2007 - Pornography & Sexual Disconnection

Vol. 12 - March 08, 2007 - Am I a Vacillator or Avoider?

Vol. 13 - March 15, 2007 - Must Read Book

Vol. 14 - March 22, 2007 - Are YOU Spiritually Healthy?

Vol. 15 - March 29, 2007 - "God - Where Are You?"

Vol. 16 - April 05, 2007 - Practical Tips for Avoiders

Vol. 17 - April 12, 2007 - Comfort and CareGiving

Vol. 18 - April 19, 2007 - Are YOU A Vacillator? Relationship Tips

Vol. 19 - April 26, 2007 - Tips for Controllers and Victims

Vol. 20 - May 03, 2007- Avoiders and Andropause

Vol. 21 - May 10, 2007 - Do YOU have a Personal Relationship with Jesus?

Vol. 22 - May 17, 2007 - How to Choose a GOOD Therapist

Vol. 23 - May 24, 2007 - What is My Part in Getting the Most Out of Counseling?

Vol. 24 - May 31, 2007 - Am I with the Right Counselor?

Vol. 25 - June 07, 2007 - Differentiation vs. Annihilation Part 1 of 4

Vol. 26 - June 14, 2007 - Differentiation vs. Annihilation Part 2 of 4

Vol. 27 - June 21, 2007 - Differentiation vs. Annihilation Part 3 of 4

Vol. 28 - June 28, 2007 - Differentiation vs. Annihilation Part 4 of 4

Vol. 29 - July 05, 2007 - Do You Invest in Holding Time?

Vol. 30 - July 12, 2007 - How Do YOU React When You Don't Get What you Want?

Vol. 31 - July 19, 2007 - Men and Holding Time

Vol. 32 - July 26, 2007 -Why Holding is Difficult for Each Love Style

Vol. 33 - August 02, 2007 - Holding Time for Vacillators and Controllers

Vol. 34 - August 09, 2007 - Holding Time: The Key to Better Sex

Vol. 35 - August 16, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 1

Vol. 36 - August 23, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 2

Vol. 37 - August 30, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 3

Vol. 38 - September 06, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 4

Vol. 39 - September 13, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 5

Vol. 40 - September 20, 2007 - Understanding Temperament: The Extrovert and Introvert

Vol. 41 - September 27, 2007 - Understanding Temperament : The Sensory and Intuitive

Vol. 42 - October 4, 2007 - Understanding Temperament : The Sensory and Intuitive- II

Vol. 43 - October 11, 2007 - Understanding Temperaments: Thinkers and Feelers

Vol. 44 - October 18, 2007 - Understanding Temperaments: Judging and Perceiving

Vol. 45 - October 25, 2007 - Follow Up Questions on Learning to Leave Your Parents-Part 1

Vol. 46 - November 01, 2007 - Follow Up Questions on Learning to Leave Your Parents-Part 2

Vol. 47 - November 08, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 1

Vol. 48 - November 15, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 2

Vol. 49 - November 22, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 3

Vol. 50 - November 29, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 4

Vol. 51 - December 06, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 5 Case Study #1

Vol. 52 - December 13, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 6 Case Study #2

Vol. 53 - December 20, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 7 Sibling Abuse

Vol. 54 - December 27, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 8 Leadership at Home

Vol. 55 - January 03, 2008 - Abuse and Submission - Part 9 Feeling Worthless in Marriage

Vol. 56 - January 10, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - God's Amazing Design for Bonding

Vol. 57 - January 17, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Avoider as a Parent

Vol. 58 - January 24, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Pleaser as a Parent

Vol. 59 - January 31, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Vacillator as a Parent

Vol. 60 - February 07, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Controller as a Parent

Vol. 61 - February 14, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Victim as a Parent and Love Styles and Valentines Day

Vol. 62 - February 21, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 1

Vol. 63 - February 23, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 2

Vol. 64 - March 06, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 3

Vol. 65 - March 13, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 4

Vol. 66 - March 20, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 5

Vol. 67 - March 27, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 6

Vol. 68 - April 03, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries

Vol. 69 - April 10, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries - Avoiders and Boundaries

Vol. 70 - April 17, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries - Pleasers and Boundaries

Vol. 71 - April 24, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries - Vacillators and Boundaries

Vol. 72 - May 01, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries - Controllers, Victims and Boundaries

Vol. 73 - May 08, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 1 of 4

Vol. 74 - May 15, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 2 of 4

Vol. 75 - May 22, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 3 of 4

Vol. 76 - May 29, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 4 of 4

Vol. 77 - June 05, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 5 of 4

Vol. 78 - June 12, 2008 - Travels in Proverbs - Week One

Vol. 79 - June 19, 2008 - Travels in Proverbs - Week Two

Vol. 80 - June 26, 2008 - Travels in Proverbs - Week Three

Vol. 81 - July 03, 2008 - Travels in Proverbs - Week Four

Vol. 82 - July 10, 2008 - No Article Due to Milan's Surgery

Vol. 83 - July 17, 2008 - Its Good to Be Back!

Vol. 84 - July 24, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Advocacy

Vol. 85 - July 31, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Submission to Others

Vol. 86 - August 07, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Community

Vol. 87 - August 14, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Mortality

Vol. 88 - August 21, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Not Knowing

Vol. 89 - August 28, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Weakness and Empathy

Vol. 90 - September 04, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 1

Vol. 91 - September 11, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 2

Vol. 92 - September 18, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 3

Vol. 93 - September 25, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 4

Vol. 94 - October 02, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 5

Vol. 95 - October 09, 2008 -What is YOUR Reality Show - Part 1

Vol. 96 - October 16, 2008 -What is YOUR Reality Show - Part 2

Vol. 97 - October 23, 2008 -What is YOUR Reality Show - Part 3

Vol. 98 - October 30, 2008 -What is YOUR Reality Show - Part 4

Vol. 99 - November 06, 2008 -What does Jesus pray for you?

Vol. 100 - November 13, 2008 -Do you wonder what God is doing in your life?

Vol. 101 - November 20, 2008 -Are you confused by the way God is working in your life?

Vol. 102 - November 27, 2008 -Depression and the Holidays

Vol. 103 - December 04, 2008 - Parenting Questions Answered - Part 1 of 4

Vol. 104 - December 11, 2008 - Parenting Questions Answered - Part 2 of 4

Vol. 105 - December 18, 2008 - Parenting Questions Answered - Part 3 of 4

Vol. 106 - December 25, 2008 - Parenting Questions Answered - Part 4 of 4

Vol. 107 - Giving the Gift of Gentleness - January 01, 2009

© Milan and Kay Yerkovich 2008