
Newsletter archives
Vol. 1 - December 21, 2006 - I'm low on my husbands priority..what do I do?
Vol. 2 - December 28, 2006 - Where do I begin if I want to get closer to my wife and kids?
Vol. 3 - January 04, 2007 - Why is my husband mad?
Vol. 4 - January 11, 2007 - How do avoiders and Pleasers handle anger?
Vol. 5 - January 18, 2007 - How to vacillators handle anger?
Vol. 6 - January 25, 2007 - How do controllers and victims handle anger?
Vol. 7 - February 01, 2007- Top Five Relationship Problems
Vol. 8 - February 08, 2007- The Avoidant Husband and Pursuing Wife
Vol. 9 - February 15, 2007 - Affairs, Dissatisfaction and Fantasies
Vol. 10 - February 22, 2007 - Anxiety / Depression and Addictions.
Vol. 11 - March 01, 2007 - Pornography & Sexual Disconnection
Vol. 12 - March 08, 2007 - Am I a Vacillator or Avoider?
Vol. 13 - March 15, 2007 - Must Read Book
Vol. 14 - March 22, 2007 - Are YOU Spiritually Healthy?
Vol. 15 - March 29, 2007 - "God - Where Are You?"
Vol. 16 - April 05, 2007 - Practical Tips for Avoiders
Vol. 17 - April 12, 2007 - Comfort and CareGiving
Vol. 18 - April 19, 2007 - Are YOU A Vacillator? Relationship Tips
Vol. 19 - April 26, 2007 - Tips for Controllers and Victims
Vol. 20 - May 03, 2007- Avoiders and Andropause
Vol. 21 - May 10, 2007 - Do YOU have a Personal Relationship with Jesus?
Vol. 22 - May 17, 2007 - How to Choose a GOOD Therapist
Vol. 23 - May 24, 2007 - What is My Part in Getting the Most Out of Counseling?
Vol. 24 - May 31, 2007 - Am I with the Right Counselor?
Vol. 25 - June 07, 2007 - Differentiation vs. Annihilation Part 1 of 4
Vol. 26 - June 14, 2007 - Differentiation vs. Annihilation Part 2 of 4
Vol. 27 - June 21, 2007 - Differentiation vs. Annihilation Part 3 of 4
Vol. 28 - June 28, 2007 - Differentiation vs. Annihilation Part 4 of 4
Vol. 29 - July 05, 2007 - Do You Invest in Holding Time?
Vol. 30 - July 12, 2007 - How Do YOU React When You Don't Get What you Want?
Vol. 31 - July 19, 2007 - Men and Holding Time
Vol. 32 - July 26, 2007 -Why Holding is Difficult for Each Love Style
Vol. 33 - August 02, 2007 - Holding Time for Vacillators and Controllers
Vol. 34 - August 09, 2007 - Holding Time: The Key to Better Sex
Vol. 35 - August 16, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 1
Vol. 36 - August 23, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 2
Vol. 37 - August 30, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 3
Vol. 38 - September 06, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 4
Vol. 39 - September 13, 2007 - Learning to Leave Your Parents!- Part 5
Vol. 40 - September 20, 2007 - Understanding Temperament: The Extrovert and Introvert
Vol. 41 - September 27, 2007 - Understanding Temperament : The Sensory and Intuitive
Vol. 42 - October 4, 2007 - Understanding Temperament : The Sensory and Intuitive- II
Vol. 43 - October 11, 2007 - Understanding Temperaments: Thinkers and Feelers
Vol. 44 - October 18, 2007 - Understanding Temperaments: Judging and Perceiving
Vol. 45 - October 25, 2007 - Follow Up Questions on Learning to Leave Your Parents-Part 1
Vol. 46 - November 01, 2007 - Follow Up Questions on Learning to Leave Your Parents-Part 2
Vol. 47 - November 08, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 1
Vol. 48 - November 15, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 2
Vol. 49 - November 22, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 3
Vol. 50 - November 29, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 4
Vol. 51 - December 06, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 5 Case Study #1
Vol. 52 - December 13, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 6 Case Study #2
Vol. 53 - December 20, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 7 Sibling Abuse
Vol. 54 - December 27, 2007 - Abuse and Submission - Part 8 Leadership at Home
Vol. 55 - January 03, 2008 - Abuse and Submission - Part 9 Feeling Worthless in Marriage
Vol. 56 - January 10, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - God's Amazing Design for Bonding
Vol. 57 - January 17, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Avoider as a Parent
Vol. 58 - January 24, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Pleaser as a Parent
Vol. 59 - January 31, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Vacillator as a Parent
Vol. 60 - February 07, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Controller as a Parent
Vol. 61 - February 14, 2008 - Parenting and the Love Styles - The Victim as a Parent and Love Styles and Valentines Day
Vol. 62 - February 21, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 1
Vol. 63 - February 23, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 2
Vol. 64 - March 06, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 3
Vol. 65 - March 13, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 4
Vol. 66 - March 20, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 5
Vol. 67 - March 27, 2008 - Marriage, Divorce and Re-Marriage - Part 6
Vol. 68 - April 03, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries
Vol. 69 - April 10, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries - Avoiders and Boundaries
Vol. 70 - April 17, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries - Pleasers and Boundaries
Vol. 71 - April 24, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries - Vacillators and Boundaries
Vol. 72 - May 01, 2008 - Love Styles and Boundaries - Controllers, Victims and Boundaries
Vol. 73 - May 08, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 1 of 4
Vol. 74 - May 15, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 2 of 4
Vol. 75 - May 22, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 3 of 4
Vol. 76 - May 29, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 4 of 4
Vol. 77 - June 05, 2008 - Comfort and Relief - Part 5 of 4
Vol. 78 - June 12, 2008 - Travels in Proverbs - Week One
Vol. 79 - June 19, 2008 - Travels in Proverbs - Week Two
Vol. 80 - June 26, 2008 - Travels in Proverbs - Week Three
Vol. 81 - July 03, 2008 - Travels in Proverbs - Week Four
Vol. 82 - July 10, 2008 - No Article Due to Milan's Surgery
Vol. 83 - July 17, 2008 - Its Good to Be Back!
Vol. 84 - July 24, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Advocacy
Vol. 85 - July 31, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Submission to Others
Vol. 86 - August 07, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Community
Vol. 87 - August 14, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Mortality
Vol. 88 - August 21, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Not Knowing
Vol. 89 - August 28, 2008 - Lessons from Pain - Weakness and Empathy
Vol. 90 - September 04, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 1
Vol. 91 - September 11, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 2
Vol. 92 - September 18, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 3
Vol. 93 - September 25, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 4
Vol. 94 - October 02, 2008 - Teaching Your Kids About Sex - Part 5
Vol. 95 - October 09, 2008 -What is YOUR Reality Show - Part 1
Vol. 96 - October 16, 2008 -What is YOUR Reality Show - Part 2
Vol. 97 - October 23, 2008 -What is YOUR Reality Show - Part 3
Vol. 98 - October 30, 2008 -What is YOUR Reality Show - Part 4
Vol. 99 - November 06, 2008 -What does Jesus pray for you?
Vol. 100 - November 13, 2008 -Do you wonder what God is doing in your life?
Vol. 101 - November 20, 2008 -Are you confused by the way God is working in your life?
Vol. 102 - November 27, 2008 -Depression and the Holidays
Vol. 103 - December 04, 2008 - Parenting Questions Answered - Part 1 of 4
Vol. 104 - December 11, 2008 - Parenting Questions Answered - Part 2 of 4
Vol. 105 - December 18, 2008 - Parenting Questions Answered - Part 3 of 4
Vol. 106 - December 25, 2008 - Parenting Questions Answered - Part 4 of 4
Vol. 107 - Giving the Gift of Gentleness - January 01, 2009
Vol. 108 - The Gift of Honesty - January 08, 2009
Vol. 109 - Faith, the Source of Your Strength - January 15, 2009
Vol. 110 - Are You A Safe Shelter? - January 22, 2009
Vol. 111 -Giving Freedom in Your Relationships - January 29, 2009
Vol. 112 - Milan and Kay’s 10 Romantic Dates & Ideas-Part 1 - February 05, 2009
Vol. 113 - Milan and Kay’s 10 Romantic Dates & Ideas-Part 2 - February 12, 2009
Vol. 114 - Modeling Growth As A Parent - Part 1 - February 19, 2009
Vol. 115 - Modeling Growth As A Parent - Part 2 - February 26, 2009
Vol. 116 - Modeling Growth As A Parent - Part 3 - March 05, 2009
Vol. 117 - Modeling Growth As A Parent - The Authoritarian Parent - March 12, 2009
Vol. 118 - Modeling Growth As A Parent -The Loose Parent - March 19, 2009
Vol. 119 - Favorite Parenting Tips - March 26, 2009
Vol. 120 - The Need to Control Others - Part 1 - April 02, 2009
Vol. 121 - The Need to Control Others - Part 2 - How and Why Avoiders Control Others -April 09, 2009
Vol. 122 - The Need to Control Others - Part 3 - How and Why Pleasers Control Others -April 16, 2009
Vol. 123 - The Need to Control Others - Part 4 - How and Why Vacillators Control Others -April 23, 2009
Vol. 124 - The Need to Control Others - Part 5 - How and Why Controller/Victims Control Others -April 30, 2009
Vol. 125 - The Safety Pyramid - Part 1
Vol. 126 - The Safety Pyramid - Part 2 - Aquaintances
Vol. 127 - The Safety Pyramid - Part 3 - Friends
Vol. 128 - The Safety Pyramid - Part 4 - Safe People
Vol. 129 -Are You an Addict? – Be Careful How You Answer!
Vol. 130 - Addictions and Compulsions
Vol. 131 -Spiritual Help For Addictions
Vol. 132 - Addictions and Compulsions
Vol. 133 - Triggers - Part 1 of 5
Vol. 134 - Triggers - Part 2 of 5
Vol. 135 - Triggers - Part 3 of 5
Vol. 136 - Triggers - Part 4 of 5
Vol. 137 - Triggers - Part 5 of 5
Vol. 138 - Affairs: Prevention and Recovery
Vol. 139 - Affairs: Love Styles: Who Is Vulnerable To An Affair And Why?
Vol. 140 - Affairs: Dealing with an Adultery
Vol. 141 - Affairs: What The Bible Says About Divorce And Remarriage
Vol. 142 - Personality Disorders - What Exactly IS a Personality Disorder
Vol. 143 - Personality Disorders - Odd or Eccentric Personalities
Vol. 144 - Personality Disorders - Dramatic and Emotionally Erratic
Vol. 145 - Personality Disorders - Histrionic and Narcissistic Personality Disorders
Vol. 146 - Personality Disorders - Fearful and Anxious Personality Disorders
Vol. 147 - Personality Disorders - How Can We Help? What Can We Do?
Vol. 148 - Psychological or Biblical?
Vol. 149 - Four Lenses of Diagnosing Problems
Vol. 150 - What’s your Favorite Defense? Love Styles and Defenses
Vol. 151 - Favorite Defenses of the Avoider
Vol. 152 - Favorite Defenses of the Pleaser
Vol. 153 - Favorite Defenses of the Vacillator
Vol. 154 - Favorite Defenses of the Controller and Victim
Vol. 155 - The “Healthy” Jesus
Vol. 156 - The “Healthy” Jesus
PRINCIPLE #1: I NEED TO KNOW MY PURPOSE
Vol. 157 - The “Healthy” Jesus
PRINCIPLE # 2: I NEED TO MANAGE ANGER APPROPRIATELY!
Vol. 158 - The “Healthy” Jesus
PRINCIPLE #3: “I NEED TO INVEST INTO MY FAMILY AND OTHERS.”
Vol. 159 - The “Healthy” Jesus
PRINCIPLE #4: I NEED TO EXHIBIT APPROPRIATE PARENT / SIBLING SEPERATION AND INDEPENDENCE
Vol. 160 - Markers of Humility: How Do You Measure Up
Vol. 161 - Markers of Humility: Can You Apologize - Pleasers and Avoiders
Vol. 162 - Markers of Humility: Can You Apologize - Vacillators and Controllers/Victims
Vol. 163 - Markers of Humility: Gratefulness
Vol. 164 - Unspoken - Questions About Sexuality - Part 1 of 7
Vol. 165 - Unspoken - Questions About Sexuality - Part 2 of 7
Vol. 166 - Unspoken - Questions About Sexuality - Part 3 of 7
Vol. 167 - Unspoken - Questions About Sexuality - Part 4 of 7
Vol. 168 - Unspoken - Questions About Sexuality - Part 5 of 7
Vol. 169 - Unspoken - Questions About Sexuality - Part 6 of 7
Vol. 170 - Unspoken - Questions About Sexuality - Part 7 of 7
Vol. 171 - Lies Embedded in The Love Styles
Vol. 172 - Lies Embedded in The Love Styles - The Avoider
Vol. 173 - Lies Embedded in The Love Styles - The Pleaser
Vol. 174 - Lies Embedded in The Love Styles-The Vacillator
Vol. 175 - Lies Embedded in The Love Styles-The Controller
Vol. 176 - Lies Embedded in The Love Styles-The Victim
Vol. 177 - Reactivity: The Enemy of Relationships
Vol. 178 - Reactivity: Root Causes of Reactivity
Vol. 179 - Reactivity: Causes Of Over Reaction For Each Of The Love Styles
Vol. 180 - Reactivity: 5 Tips To Help You Control Your Reactivity
Vol. 181 - Resolution That Satisfies - Part 1 of 4
Vol. 182 - Resolution That Satisfies - Part 2 of 4
Vol. 183 - Resolution That Satisfies - Part 3 of 4
Vol. 184 - Resolution That Satisfies - Part 4 of 4
Vol. 185 - Resolution That Satisfies - Part 5 of 4
Vol. 186 - What is Love? And who is my neighbor? -The Good Samaritan
Vol. 187 - What is Love? And who is my neighbor? -The Good Samaritan - Part 2
Vol. 188 - What is Love? And who is my neighbor? -The Good Samaritan - Part 3
Vol. 189 - What is Love? And who is my neighbor? -The Good Samaritan - Part 4
Vol. 190 - The Avoidant Leader
Vol. 191 - The Pleaser Leader
Vol. 192 - The Vacillator Leader
Vol. 193 - The Controller Leader
Vol. 194 - The Victim Leader
Vol. 195 - Helping the Avoidant Leader
Vol. 196 - Helping the Pleaser Leader
Vol. 197 - Helping the Vacillator Leader
Vol. 198 - Helping the Controller Leader
Vol. 199 - Helping the Victim Leader
Vol. 200 - The Couples Prayer
Vol. 201 - Are You Growing
Vol. 202 -Do you have compassion for your spouse?
Vol. 203 - When You Suffer Because of your Spouse
Vol. 204 - The Most Healing Love
Vol. 205 - Seeing the Soul of Your Spouse
Vol. 206 - Last Line of Our Prayer For You
Vol. 207 - Aggressive Prayer 1
Vol. 208 - Aggressive Prayer 2
Vol. 209 - Aggressive Prayer 3
Vol. 210 - Aggressive Prayer 4
Vol. 211 - Aggressive Prayer - Continued
Vol. 212 - Each Love Style as Givers and Receivers
Vol. 213 - Each Love Style as Givers and Receivers at Christmas
Vol. 214 - Avoiders as Givers and Receivers
Vol. 215 - Pleasers as Givers and Receivers
Vol. 216 - Vacillators as Givers and Receivers
Vol. 217 - Controllers and Victims as Givers and Receivers
Vol. 218 - Seize the Day - Martha and Mary
Vol. 219 - New Book - How We Love Our Kids
Vol. 220 - Seize the Day - Martha and Mary - Part 2
Vol. 221 - Seize the Day - Martha and Mary - Part 3
Vol. 222 -Praise and Prayer Request
Vol. 223 -- Seize the Day - Martha and Mary - Part 4
Vol. 224 -- Love Lessons About Rupture And Repair
Vol. 225 -- Love Lessons About Rupture
Vol. 226 -- Love Lessons About Repair
Vol. 227 - Importance of Learning About Rupture and Repair
Vol. 228 - How Avoiders Deal With Rupture and Repair
Vol. 229 - How Pleasers Deal With Rupture and Repai
Vol. 230 - How Vacillators Deal With Rupture and Repair
Vol. 231 - How Controller and Victims Deal With Rupture and Repair
Vol. 232 - Homecomings
Vol. 233 -Recovering From An Affair - First In A Series
Vol. 234 -Recovering From An Affair - Second In A Series
Vol. 235 -Recovering From An Affair - How Much Do You Reveal
Vol. 236 -Recovering From An Affair -Ownership: Humble accurate honesty
Vol. 237 -Recovering From An Affair - Listening and containing pain
Vol. 238 -Recovering From An Affair - Ownership By The Offended Partner As To Their Contribution
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